It is like playing catch. Just throwing the ball is not enough. It is only meaningful when the other party actually catches the ball. Depending on who is on the receiving end of your pitches, whether it is a child, a female, or a baseball player, how you throw the ball will differ. You may be throwing lots of balls to a spot where there is no one to catch them, In other words, if you don’t throw balls the others can catch, they may never come back to you, and you will not be able to establish a good relationship.
Generally we use the word “communicate” without thinking, but behind this is the need to know who you are communicating with, where they are, what they are thinking and in what type of language, using which design and what method they should be approached in order for them to “catch” your message. Everything depends on being able to do this.